Relationship Tips and Advice
Our expert Relationship Psychics offer the following Top 10 Relationship Tips in order to have a successful and fulfilling long term relationship:
1. Be happy in yourself. Look to yourself first to make you happy. It is only when you focus and concentrate on ‘being all that you can be’ that you attract a partner into your life who fulfils your every desire.
2. Make a wishlist of what you want in your potential mate. Concentrate on the important things such as personality traits rather than superficial characteristics such as looks and finances. Remember the Universe will give you what you ask for, so if you write down on your wishlist that you want a handsome man, 6 feet tall who earns $150,000 per year, you may well get that but you might also get someone who is ruthless and cruel in order to get it.
3. Associate with people and groups where you are likely to meet a suitable partner. Remember the old saying ‘Birds of a feather flock together’.
4. When you find a potential partner who looks like ‘The One’, develop ‘areas of shared interests’. You need to have some things in common so you can communicate.
5. Have suitable quality time together and apart. If you are together 24/7, eventually the relationship will become stale and uninteresting. Quality relationships are great but they’re not the only thing in life. Career, hobbies, family and your health are important too.
6. Remember that you are a unique expression of universal energy. All too often women usually and men sometimes lose themselves in relationship. Your potential partner will be attracted to you for your unique characteristics and personality. If you change and pretend you are someone else, your attractiveness will diminish to that potential partner. Be who you really are – not who you think your potential partner wants.
7. If your family and friends (assuming you have quality in both!) don’t like your potential partner, be very careful. They are probably seeing something that you are not.
8. Follow a good balance of ‘heart and head’. Too much heart or head could get you into relationship chaos. That’s why the Universe has given us both a heart and a head, to use them!
9. Investigate and heal your own relationship with your parents. Often we pick partners similar to the parent who disappointed us the most! This is Spirit’s way of getting us to heal the damaged parts of ourselves through relationships. We will be drawn back into similar relationship patterns throughout our lives in order to become aware of what really happened when we were children.
10. Remember it is your responsibility to make you happy. Look inside and think about what you really want and then choose a partner with similar shared beliefs.